Thursday, October 16, 2014

The thing that gets to me.

Have you even had to deal with someone who was nice to your face, then talked bad about you behind your back? Unfortunately, this is what I am dealing with at my cadet program. I volunteer with an air cadet squadron where my darling husband is an officer. A lieutenant to be exact. This person is another volunteer, the mother of two of the kids. She is sweet to my face, then complains about me to our commanding officer, saying that it is inappropriate for us to be there, since we are together and bring Boo with us, and she wants us to leave. I haven't let this bother me because she is entitled to her own opinion. Unless our C.O tells me to leave, I'm staying there for the kids. However, she has recently taken it upon herself to bully one of the kids. This I can't stand for. A 45 year old woman is bullying a 15 year old teenage boy. He dated her daughter for a while, and then the mother decided she didn't like him, so she started encroaching on his life. She forbade her daughter to see him, and told his friend's mothers that they shouldn't let their children hang around him anymore either. She watches him like a hawk at cadets, and interrupts when someone tries to talk to him. She even got a job at his school in the cafeteria so she can make sure her beloved daughter isn't seen with him. All because he mentioned to her that some of the cadets find her mean and unapproachable. The poor guy can't even go to school anymore because he is so stressed out. He's stopped eating, and is physically sick from all the bullying. How can someone do this to someone else, especially to an underage teenager?  

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